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Stephen O'Mara



Stephen O'Mara, 1898.
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Stephen O'Mara, Parnellite MP,
born 26th Dec 1844, Limerick,
his earliest memories were of the Famine 1845-50: "He could remember the faces of hungry men, and people falling in the streets, faint from lack of food" [Pat Lavelle],
bacon merchant, started work in his father's company O'Mara's 1860, age 15,
member of radical Fenian (IRB) movement, young recruit 1862,
[GROI] lists him as "provision merchant", Limerick, at mar,
mar 1867 to Ellen Pigott [bapt 3 Apr 1845],
[GROI] records (children's births etc.) mostly list him as "provision merchant",
living Chapel St (beside St.Michael's RC church, Denmark St), Limerick, at Mary's birth 1868 [GROI],
living 22 Roches St (the street O'Mara's bacon factory was on), centre of new town, Limerick, as at 1871-80 [children's birth's in [GROI]],
early supporter of Isaac Butt's Home Rule movement, member (with his father) of the famous Butt Committee, which secured Butt's election for Limerick city, in by-election, 20 Sept 1871,
this was not the first Home Rule seat (there were others earlier in 1871), but its first big urban seat, a turning point for them,

in 1879 he gave evidence at the murder of one of O'Mara's customers in a mugging, he is not yet described as a councillor,
the murder victim, a general dealer, age nearly 70, had come from Thurles to Limerick with plenty of cash on his person, purchased bacon and other goods from O'Mara's on Roches St on Fri 10 Oct 1879, at which time he had a bit of drink taken; that evening he was robbed, beaten and thrown into the Shannon to drown,
Stephen O'Mara gave evidence at identification of the body on Sat 11 Oct, see Irish Times, October 13, 1879,
he pledged his support to the Land League at its founding, Oct 1879, see Irish Times, October 22, 1879,
living 31 Roches St at Nell's birth 1882 [GROI],

joined Limerick Corporation as Councillor for the Shannon Ward, sometime 1879-84,
while in Limerick Corporation, successfully opposed imposition of RIC tax on the ratepayers, the police at that time "being solely employed in suppressing political gatherings",
listed as "TC" (Town Councillor) at dinner to celebrate the granting of the Freedom of Limerick to Michael Davitt 1884,
Mayor of Limerick 1885 (would be approx calendar year, Jan 1885 - Jan 1886), see the Town Hall, Limerick,
criticised the running of the Athenaeum, Limerick, 1885, saying: "The Athenaeum is for the general benefit of the citizens .. not a closed borough",

while he was Mayor, the Prince of Wales (future Edward VII) came to Ireland on a visit (must be the Royal visit to Ireland, 8-27 April 1885), luggage train sent on to Limerick in advance, [Pat Lavelle] says: "Grandfather met the train and talked to the equerry in his quiet, friendly way, and explained again quite firmly that there would be no question of a civic welcome. The luggage was not derailed. The Prince of Wales did not visit Limerick. Grandfather had no opportunity to refuse a knighthood and practically nobody knew anything about the incident then or later.",
all the poor Limerick lacemakers had made robes, etc, as gift for Queen Victoria's family, [Pat Lavelle] says: "Grandmother felt badly about leaving it in the hands of the poor people who made it", she bought it off them for her own family,
this is the origin of the O'Mara wedding veil in which many O'Mara daughters and granddaughters have been married, presumably pictured here,

Mayor of Limerick 1886 (second term),
member of the Irish Parliamentary Party (or the Irish Nationalist Party, or the Home Rule party, 3rd largest party in UK, led by Parnell),
MP 1886, Home Rule MP for Queen's County Ossory (the W section of Co.Laois) 12th Feb - 9th July 1886,
nominated unopposed 12th Feb 1886 when winner of 4th Dec 1885 general election chose to sit elsewhere,
in May 1886 he was in London, his 12 yr old son James wrote to him, "Will you send a message when you get Home Rule?",
he did NOT practice obstructionism (that was his son James),
did not stand in 9th July 1886 general election,
see his contributions to parliament in 1886,

lived Hartstonge House, Limerick, from at least Phons' birth 1887 [GROI] to at least 1908 [date on a photo],
High Sheriff of Limerick city 1888, see appointment reported in Irish Times, December 21, 1887,
in early 1889 he was summoned to court as a Crown witness, case before Ballyneety Petty Sessions, with Edward Carson as prosecutor, he was asked to disclose what was said at a meeting of the Irish Party leaders at which Parnell presided, he refused, he was imprisoned for a week in Limerick Gaol, NOT jailed any other known time,
obituary says he was jailed "under the Forster regime" (would refer to William Edward Forster, Chief Secretary for Ireland 1880-82),
Alderman of Limerick, listed as "provision merchant and Alderman" at Kat's birth Sept 1889 [GROI],
made one of the 3 trustees of the Irish Parliamentary Party funds 1890,
when Irish Parliamentary Party split over Parnell in 1890-91, he remained loyal to Parnell,
he met Parnell after his fall, alone at a railway station, with no one to meet him, "who but a year before, had been the idol of thousands" [Lavelle, 1961],
was at Parnell's deathbed in Brighton, 6th Oct 1891, "and was one of the Members who accompanied his coffin to Dublin",
ceased to take active part in politics after the Parnell split, though remained as trustee of Irish Parliamentary Party funds, devoted himself to the reunion of Nationalist forces (which occurred under Redmond in 1900),

listed as Alderman for Shannon Ward, Limerick, in [Thoms, 1893],
listed as "Alderman" at his brother Jim's funeral 1893,
he must be "Stephen O'Mara" who sp bapt of his niece Nora O'Mara 1897,
she must be "Ellen O'Mara" who sp bapt of her niece Susan O'Mara 1898,
he is listed as "Alderman" at time of his son Jim's election as an MP 1900,
attended Dr. David Humphreys' funeral 1903 (their families knew each other, but they were not yet joined by marriage), listed as "Alderman",
purchased Donnelly's bacon factory, Dublin, 1906,
he was one of the promoters of the Munster-Connaught Exhibition, Limerick, 1906,
President of Limerick Chamber of Commerce,
resigned trusteeship of Home Rule Party funds 1908, broadly agreeing with his son James' recent move to Sinn Fein,
moved c.1909 to Strand House, standing in grounds on the river at Sarsfield Bridge, start of Ennis Rd, Limerick city, Strand House was on the side of the bridge which is now O'Callaghan's Strand, living there as at 1910,
see picture of Ellen 1910,

Ellen died of cancer, Strand House, 26th Oct 1910, age 65 yrs,
see death notice, Irish Times, October 27, 1910,
bur Mount St. Lawrence cemetery, Limerick,

Stephen was Sheriff of Limerick 1913,
Sheriff of Limerick 1914,
[Pat Lavelle] remembered that he: "owned a broughm and a dogcart and a sidecar", his grandchildren used to love riding in the sidecar over the cobbled streets of Limerick,
he co-founded the Irish National League 1916, as alternative to Home Rule party in response to the 1916 Rising,
his son James helped persuade the Irish National League to merge with Sinn Fein 1917-8,
in Apr 1917 he was elected member of organizing committee of the National Council to put Ireland's case before proposed post-war Peace Conference (which did not happen until Jan 1919),
in Apr 1918, during WW1, there was an attempt to introduce conscription to Ireland, "It was a common belief in our family that grandfather was approached at this time, and offered a baronetcy if he would support conscription - and that he refused the offer" [Lavelle, 1961],

"Just prior to the General Elections of 1918" [Dec 1918] "when the Irish Party were so signally defeated by Sinn Fein, Mr.O'Mara had espoused the latter side in politics, and to use his own words, he 'broke with life long ties', giving all his support and encouragement to the new movement, subscribing to its funds with his usual characteristic liberality",
in May 1921, in a time of great strain, his son James attempting to resign from his position in the US, Stephen would not hear of it: "Tell Jim not to stab his country in the hour of her agony. I am hurt beyond words", but his son, for once, would not listen to him,
he lived to see Irish independence,
on 5th Dec 1921, De Valera staying night in Strand House, as the Treaty was being signed in London,
talking in drawing room, Dev: "I have always wanted to know, Mr. O'Mara, what you thought of Parnell", "I'll tell you what I thought of Parnell - if he and I were walking across Sarsfield Bridge together and he said to me jump in the river I would jump in",
he saw them off at the station, "the split had come but no one told Grandfather that the Treaty was signed", he heard it for the first time as he walked home, "I have just seen the Chief off at the station. I am sure there's a truth in these rumours",
he was strongly pro-Treaty,
described as an "ex-Alderman" in his son's biography, 1923,
called 'the Governor' as a pet name by his own family, lived to see the 4th generation, see picture 1924,
Free State Senator Aug 1925 to death July 1926 (see Free State Senate),
he had "a reddish beard and grey blue eyes that saw a lot" [Pat Lavelle],
died 26th July 1926, Limerick, age 81 yrs,
obituary describes him as "head" of O'Mara's bacon company, says he was walking at mid-day from his office in Limerick to Strand House when he collapsed, taken home and died, [Muffie de Courcy] said he collapsed coming over Sarsfield Bridge (the bridge leading to Strand House),
see obituary and photo in Irish Times, July 27, 1926,
brief report in Irish Times, July 28, 1926, says the flag is at half mast at Limerick town hall, and notes messages of sympathy from W.T. Cosgrave, Sir Thomas Esmonde, 11th Baronet, Mary MacSwiney and Cardinal O'Donnell (a fellow trustee of Irish Parliamentary Party funds),
brief report in Irish Times, July 30, 1926, notes message of sympathy from David Keane, Bishop of Limerick,
obituary in Limerick Echo, 31st July,
bur Mount St. Lawrence cemetery, Limerick,
had issue:



  1. Mary O'Mara,
    born 8th May 1868, Chapel St, Limerick [GROI],
    bapt Maria, 10th May [St.John's, Limerick],
    died of diphtheria [NOT typhoid], 22nd Sept 1872, Roches St, Limerick [GROI], age 4 yrs,
    bur Mount St. Lawrence cemetery, Limerick.

  2. Patrick O'Mara [Paddy],
    can't find birth in [GROI],
    bapt 24th Mar 1870 [St.Michael's, Limerick],
    died of diphtheria, 8th [grave] or 11th [GROI] Oct 1872, Roches St, Limerick, age 2 yrs,
    bur Mount St. Lawrence cemetery, Limerick.

  3. James O'Mara [Jim],
    born 11th Nov 1871, Roches St, Limerick [GROI],
    bapt 12th Nov [St.Michael's, Limerick],
    died of diphtheria, 11th [grave] or 8th [GROI] Oct 1872, Roches St, Limerick, age 11 months,
    bur Mount St. Lawrence cemetery, Limerick.

    As at mid-Sept 1872 they had 3 children.
    One month later they had none. All three children were dead.


  4. James O'Mara,
    Jim [second James], James Mary,
    born 6th Aug 1873, Limerick,
    bapt 8th Aug [St.Michael's, Limerick].


  5. Fr. Paddy O'Mara, S.J. [second Patrick],
    Patrick Joseph, NOT Patrick Mary,
    born 13th Mar 1875, Roches St, Limerick [GROI],
    bapt 15th Mar [St.Michael's, Limerick].


  6. Mary O'Mara [second Mary], "Aunt Moll", born Limerick, 1876,
    can't find birth in [GROI], NOT Mary Ellen, Limerick, 1876,
    bapt Mary, 12th June 1876 [St.Michael's, Limerick],
    see picture c.1890,
    educ for a time with the nuns of Sacrè Coeur at Highgate, London, c.1894,
    mar 1 Sept 1898, St.Michael's, Limerick [GROI] to Dr. Michael Rynne and had issue.


  7. Joe O'Mara [Joseph Mary], "Uncle Joe",
    born 21st May 1878, 22 Roches St, Limerick [GROI],
    bapt 22nd May [St.Michael's, Limerick].


  8. Norrie O'Mara,
    Nora, "Nonie", think NOT Norah,
    born "Nora Mary", 3rd Mar 1880, 22 Roches St, Limerick [GROI],
    bapt "Honora Mary", 4th Mar [St.Michael's, Limerick],
    her name comes from Nora, NOT from Noreen, although her daughter is definitely Noreen,
    must be named after her grandmother Hanora Foley who had just died 1878,
    see picture c.1890,
    educ for a time with the nuns of Sacre Coeur at Highgate, London, c.1894,
    wit Mary's mar 1898,
    Pat Lavelle's notes mention a dance in Hartstonge House, Christmas 1902, "to celebrate the engagement of one of my aunts" - this must be Norrie,
    mar 26th Apr 1904, poss. Limerick, to Dr. Bill O'Sullivan and had issue.


  9. Nell O'Mara,
    born "Ellen Mary", 6th June 1882, 31 Roches St, Limerick [GROI],
    bapt "Mary", 7th June [St.Michael's, Limerick],
    Ellen, Nelly,
    see picture c.1890,
    think educ Highgate, London also (like her sisters),
    mar Jan-Oct 1910 [think NOT 1908] to Jim Sullivan [born 1873] and had issue.


  10. Stephen O'Mara,
    of Strand House, Limerick (his father's house),
    bapt "Stephen Mary", 5th Jan 1884 [St.Michael's, Limerick], NOT 1886,
    see picture c.1890.


  11. Phons O'Mara [Alphonsus, Phonso],
    born 13th Oct 1887, Hartstonge House, Limerick [GROI],
    bapt "Alphonsus Mary", 13th Oct [St.Michael's, Limerick],
    see picture c.1890.


  12. Kat O'Mara,
    Kathleen Mary, NOT Catherine, born 9th Sept 1889, Hartstonge House, Limerick [GROI],
    bapt 14th Sept [St.Michael's, Limerick],
    see picture c.1890,
    see picture 1910,
    mar Billie de Courcy and had issue.

  13. "Sheila O'Mara, born 1890" is listed by John O'Sullivan but this may be an error.




Ellen Pigott.
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The Irish Parliamentary Party, April 1886 (when Stephen O'Mara was an MP).
Image courtesy of Cork Multitext Project, UCC (see here). Used with permission.
Originally from Illustrated London News, 10 April 1886.


 

Stephen O'Mara, his wife and children, must be 1890 or 1891 (by age of youngest children).
Back (Left to Right): Joe, Paddy, Mary, James.
Middle: Nell, Norrie, Stephen O'Mara, Ellen Pigott.
Front: Phons (born Oct 1887), Kat (born Sept 1889), Stephen.



Ellen Pigott and Stephen O'Mara.
Detail of 1905 photo.



Stephen O'Mara and Ellen Pigott.
Detail of 1910 photo.



Stephen O'Mara in later years, Limerick.



Strand House, 1925 or 1926.
Background: Mary O'Mara, Nancy O'Brien, Pat and Dick Lavelle.
Foreground: Stephen O'Mara and his great-grandson, Ruaire Lavelle.
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4 of the 5 brothers.
Back: Jim, Joe.
Front: Phons, Fr.Paddy.




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