Genealogy research by Mark Humphrys,
Henry Herbert, 2nd Earl of Pembroke (see here and here), K.G.,
mar 1stly, 21st May 1553 [him age probably 12-15, her age 12]
to Lady Catherine Grey
[sister of Lady Jane].
After the fall of Lady Jane Grey in July 1553, the 1st Earl of Pembroke banished Lady Catherine from Wilton. The marriage was dissolved or declared null 1554 by influence of 1st Earl. Unsurprisingly it had not been consummated, though she was saddened by losing him.
mar 2ndly, 17th Feb 1563 [him age over 22, her age est c.15]
to Catherine Talbot [born est c.1548].
mar 3rdly, 1577 [him age over 36, her age 15]
to Lady Mary Sidney
[born 27th Oct 1561, descendant of Edward I].
Lady Mary was a poet and translator, and a great patron of learning at Wilton.
[Aubrey's "Brief Lives"] says: "In her time, Wilton House was like a College, there were so many learned and ingeniose persons. She was the greatest Patronesse of witt and learning of any Lady in her time."
Wilton has been called "the nursery of the English Renaissance".
The countess of Pembroke's Arcadia 1579-81 refers to her. Her brother Sir Philip Sidney wrote it at Wilton. After his death 1586 she ensured the publication of his works.
2nd Earl was named as supporting the death warrant of Mary, Queen of Scots 1587.
The Ruines of Time by Edmund Spenser (friend of her brother Sir Philip Sidney) was dedicated to Lady Mary, 1590.
2nd Earl died 19th Jan 1601.
Lady Mary died London, 25th Sept 1621, of smallpox, age 59 yrs.
See print epitaph.
She was bur in the choir [or "Quire"] of Salisbury Cathedral, Wiltshire (see grave).
There is no gravestone, but there is apparently a plaque to "several members of the Pembroke family buried here with no mark" or similar wording, beside S door of Quire.
See Connections to Shakespeare.
2nd Earl and Lady Mary had issue:
Anecdote in [Aubrey's "Brief Lives"] about Lady Mary Sidney:
"She was very salacious, and she had a Contrivance that in the Spring of the yeare, when the Stallions were to leape the Mares, they were to be brought before such a part of the house, where she had a vidette (a hole to peepe out at) to looke on them and please herselfe with their Sport; and then she would act the like sport herselfe with her stallions. One of her great Gallants was Crooke-back't Cecill, Earl of Salisbury."
This would be Robert Cecil, 1st Earl of Salisbury. Her son would marry his niece.
"Underneath this sable hearse |
Lies the subject of all verse,
Sidney's sister! Pembroke's mother!
Death, ere thou hast slain another
Fair, and learn'd, and good as she,
Time shall throw a dart at thee!"
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