mar 20 July 1910
to Elsie Ward
[Elizabeth, born 27 May 1884].
They are listed in 1911 census at Dartmouth Square, Ranelagh. He is "Manager, Bacon Factory".
Living 19 Northbrook Rd, Dublin, at son's birth 1912. He is "merchant".
They were living 12 Healthfield Rd, Terenure, Co.Dublin, as at 1914.
At son's birth 1915 he is "merchant". They are living Victoria Lodge, Stillorgan Road, Dublin. This (presumably rented) is a fine house, near Donnybrook. The S house of a pair of joined houses. See old OS map. Still there. Still same name. See street view.
"He lived in Dublin and had a youthful appearance and manner.
He made and lost money as though he were throwing at hazard.
Life was brimful of the unexpected for him and he had friends everywhere".
"And the Rays are going broke!" was the phrase in the O'Mara family.
[PAT/1, p.8] said that Elsie "could take the ball of life as it bounced for Cousin Lad; up and down; down and up; hostess or housewife; she was equal to it either way". "When they were rich they raced and dined and had a tremendous time. When they had less money all the sterling qualities of my cousin Elsie became apparent."
Lad Ray was a racehorse owner and trainer.
His obituary describes him as "a well-known owner of horses, who was a regular patron of Irish race meetings". He trained his own horses and the horses of others. Won many races. Horses he owned included "Odd Cat", "Parteen", "Roda" and "Clonlara".
He was also a boxing promoter.
He was one of the promoters of the dramatic world light-heavyweight title fight between world champion Battling Siki (one of the first world-famous black boxers) and Co.Clare boxer Mike McTigue at the La Scala Theatre, Dublin, 17 Mar 1923 (just after independence, while the Civil War was still on). McTigue won and became world champion.
Lad and Elsie lived Annfield, or Annefield, Clonsilla, Co.Dublin (think there were stables there).
Finally Lad and Elsie did go bust. Had to go live in flat, Merrion Rd, Dublin. Things were very hard, children just growing up. Then think some aunt died, got enough to get going.
But then Lad died, Elsie left to bring up family on her own.
At Lad's death 1931 he is listed as "horse trainer", formerly of Annfield, or Annefield, Clonsilla, now of 74 Merrion Rd.
Elsie would be "Mrs. T. Ray" at funeral of
She would be "Mrs. E. Ray" at funeral of Joe O'Mara who died 1950.
She fl early 1950s.
She would be Elsie Ray, widow, of "Thomond", Albert Rd, Sandycove, Co.Dublin, who died 6 Mar 1955 at St.Michael's Hospital, Dun Laoghaire, age 70 (born 1885). See death cert. Death registered by dau Betty Ray, of "Thomond", Albert Rd.
Lad and Elsie had issue:
The boxing match in Paris, 24 Sept 1922, when Battling Siki became world light-heavyweight champion.
Battling Siki lost the title on 17 Mar 1923 to Mike McTigue in the Dublin fight that Lad Ray was one of the promoters of.
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View of the mA row of graves.
"mA" is the row going left-to-right. The numbers are increasing as you go right.
Layout of the row is as follows:
Sullivan (mA 50)
Blackwell (mA 50.5)
The Lad Ray grave is mA 52.
So that would be right beside the path on either the left of the path or on its right.
Either way, there is no headstone.
Image from street view. Click through to rotate.
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